Bongani Fassie, son of the late South African pop icon Brenda Fassie, recently shared his struggles with mental health and addiction on Behind The Story. In this conversation with presenter Jessica Nomalanga Shozi, Bongani opened up about his multiple suicide attempts and challenges faced since his mother’s death.
Struggles with Mental Health and Addiction
Despite Bongani’s attempts to overcome his addiction, he felt constantly besieged by darkness. He shared that he had tried to take his own life on three separate occasions, using poison and detergents to end his suffering. Bongani spoke candidly about his sense of isolation and the lack of understanding he faced from those he relied on for support.
Challenges after his Mother’s Death
Following his mother’s death in 2004, Bongani was taken under the wing of a music executive who helped him manage his mother’s estate. However, this newfound wealth quickly became a source of turmoil. Bongani admitted to extravagant spending, including purchasing three Hummer vehicles, spending tens of thousands of rands on rent, and spending R4 million on narcotics alone. Eventually, he realized that he had misplaced his trust in the wrong people, and his fortune dwindled as a result.
A Connection to a Legacy
Despite the adversity he faced, Bongani remains a talented artist with a unique connection to the legacy of his mother, the Queen of African Pop. He recently announced plans to remix some of Brenda Fassie’s greatest hits with an amapiano twist, signaling a potential creative resurgence and a tribute to his mother’s indelible impact on the world of music.
Lessons Learned and Resilience
Bongani’s story serves as a poignant reminder of the complexities of navigating life in the public eye. His willingness to share his experiences with vulnerability and candor is a testament to his resilience and may provide solace to others grappling with similar challenges.
